20.07.2008 ( Part 2 );
20.07.2008
My happiness
Finally, I'm officially MARRIED!! Got some small hipcups here and there but things went off well...
1st hipcup: Dropped 1 of the ear rings just before I need to wear it. But thanks to him, he found it by stepping on it.... Haha...
2nd hipcup: Solemniser was late for about 15 min. Scare the hell out of him..
3rd hipcup: Got the wrong colour of pen. Suppose to be black pen but he bought all 5 blue pen. -_-!! ( Have to borrow the solemniser's pen throughout. )
4th hipcup: I didn't know when the solemniser going to finish his sentence as the way he says it doen't seems to have a full stop, thus he had to prompt me to say " I Do ". ( Paiseh )
5th hipcup: I can't put in the ring nicely for him. It got stucked half way thru and I just leave it as it is... Haha....
6th hipcup: We forgotten the bouquet of flowers totally.
And the solemniser just come and leave like a wind. Come in hurriedly and left hurriedly without a chance to take a photo with him. ( Heard that he's rushing for a dinner.... )
Ta da....
After which is busy taking photos..... I hate to take photos and I have to keep taking photos on that day... Sigh....
Honestly speaking, I didn't like my make-up on that day.... I already told the make-up artist that I want it to be simple and looks natural.... Now tell me, does it look natural??? Bleah... She told me that the make-up will last the whole day.... Yah... Is true.... But my mascara dropped and makes me like a zombie after that.... Had a hard time wipping off the make-up at the end of the day too.... And I got break outs straight after that. -_-!!
Anyway, all the guests left by 10 plus and the 2nd group of people came - his colleagues.
And they wants to make him drunk that night.
The mastermind - His boss
Their drinking session starts and off I go to wash-up and off to eat supper... Didnt get to eat much thus was hungry in the middle of the night. By the time we came back at 3am, most was dead drunk. Unpleasant sight everywhere....
And where is he????
Here......
He said that he acted drunk so that the drinking session can be ended.... Haha... They have at least 12 bottles of red wine, a big bottle of champagne, many cans of beer, 1 bottle of vodka - all in about 3 hrs.... And drinks were all anyhow mixed.
He was there sleeping and a few of us were there clearing the place and taking care of those who are drunk. Thanks to Gary... He did all the dirty job... Lucky his boss and 2 of his other colleagues were there to take care of them. I cant stand people puke. All the beds were occupied.... And I didn't get to sleep throughout.... All the way till 1 plus the next afternoon did I get to sleep awhile. Sigh... I just cant get myself to sleep in the bed when I have seen what had happened that night before. So throughout the night I was sitting there seeing people puke, reading newspaper, staring blankly - all the way till 7am when all seems to be quieten down and his boss left. And they brought the dead drunk friend to another room, so that I can go sleep with him. But NO WAY!! And so, I played puzzle bubble from 7am to 9+am. From the living room to the master bedroom as my phone battery went flat. Until he woke up and asked my why I was sitting on the floor in one corner and not on the bed. I don't even dare to go near the bed lor.... Aiyoh...
Now everything ended... Life back to normal.... Me staying at my own place, and he at his own place. Haha... Till we get our own flat den we will be staying together loh....
Now everything ended... Life back to normal.... Me staying at my own place, and he at his own place. Haha... Till we get our own flat den we will be staying together loh....
Wednesday, July 23, 20081:39 PM
20.07.2008 ( Part 1 );
Finally everything is over... Phew.... Eveything is now back to normal....
20.07.2008
My unhappiness on this special day....
Didnt start the day well.... Was really damn pissed off with someone. You are free to write whatever you want in your blog, so do I. Go ahead and make people think that I'm the 1 who is at fault. That's what you do best! I just don't understand. It is just a simple invitation and you have to make things this way. A simple "yes, I'm attending" or " sorry, I'm not attending" will do. But, you just have to complicate the whole thing and made me damn pissed off with you that I have to withdraw my invitation to you. I know our f/s is not as in the past and you may feel awkward to see us, den just kindly reject my invitation nicely and I will understand. But, do you have to tell me one minute you are coming, next minute not coming, another day says you are coming and this goes on and on and on. Why not just tell me the very minute when the ceremony starts den? I know people may have plan on this day and won't be able to attend. But is the courtesy to tell me nicely and when you yourself have confirmed your own attendance. I have people telling me the night before that they were unable to make it and I accept it. They don't everyday sms me says that they are coming and then again says not coming. And even blog abt how much you hate my husband and his brother saying he dunno head or tail when in actual fact he know? You are bringing out the past saying that he told you off on my birthday gathering when you are quarrelling with your bf at that time. I'm pretty sure he did give you face by telling you nicely and privately that you can go outside to clear your misunderstanding with your bf and join us back in the ktv. Rather den having every1 in the room seeing both of you quarrelling. It won't be nice if I'm the one who actually said that to you, as I'm the host that day. Don't believe it? See what happened now. As a host, I have to withdraw my invitation to you. It's damn embarrassing to be rejected by the host. ( Does anyone agree with me? )
And to make things clear: I am the one who wants to withdraw the invitation, not anyone else. Decision was made by me and me alone!!
Counting down... 2 more days...;
Another 2 more days only.... Time passes fast...... Finally, the guest list is confirmed today. Yah... Today den confirmed when is already Friday and the event is on this Sunday. 1 can even tell me she's coming and decided not to come again the next day..... Oh well.... I cant be bothered about the guest list anymore. I have already informed all those who are coming the exact venue and the unit number. It somehows make me wonder " Did I organised all these for other people or for myself as I actually need people's confirmation den I can go ahead with my booking everything, but on the other hand, I wish that everything can be confirmed early so that we do not have many last minute things to do??" Or maybe as what the other person said" I'm a bad host". Cant be bothered anymore lah....
Friday, July 18, 200812:45 PM
Counting down.....;
Left 5 and half more days to my BIG Day.... Ok... I do feel nervous now as I do not know how the soluminsation will be carried out... It's my first time attending such a function and I'm the one going through it.... Oh well, everyone has their first.... And our initial decision was to held it infront of our own family with only 11 people ( our own parents, brothers and the soluminiser), and now the people have increased to about 50 plus people... OMG!! We are just going to sign a piece of paper and so many people are there to see??? *Faint*
My mother just told me the other day that juz a ROM only and it seems that we are spending way to much. Juz because of the 2 of us. Unlike in the past, juz a few people to witness the event at the ROM and 2 families go for a meal after that. Come to think of it, I think is true. We are spending thousand over dollars just for 1 day.. And is not even the traditional dinner.... Juz booking the chalet and the buffet already cost alot... And also our outfit and the flower juz for the signing session.... and of cos our wedding rings aren't cheap too... And yup! I'm going to hold a bouquet of flowers for the first time in my life! Seriously, I dont really like flower as I feel is a waste of money. I rather hold a bear den a bouquet of flowers lor. But nobody will hold a bear during her ROM. So juz be it bah....
Everything is done up le I suppose. And Rachel, I got my dress le, so you will get to see me on that day. :) Although the number of people turning out are still not finalised ( as some people juz cant tell me whether they will be turning up till today when actually I told them I need to know the answer since last week? ), we decided to go ahead to book the buffet as the caterer needs to be informed very early, and not only during the very last minute. Just hope the food is enough for everyone bah....
Heading down to ROM to confirmed the date and time with them and our witnesses. And to call up the soluminiser too.... Who knows, the soluminiser play us out on that day as he had forgotten as we booked his schedue since May? Haha.... Juz kidding.... Is just a normal procedure and courtesy to remind him again.
That's all for now.... What prompt me to update this entry is because of 1 person's view in her blog.... As they may think that I'm not sincere enough to invite them as I did not confirm their attendance with them and juz go ahead to book the buffet....
Tuesday, July 15, 20081:35 PM
Slacking;
Slacking away at home.... Work contract ended last Thursday.... Don't want to continue another year contract, cuz not worth it.... Especially when you see everyone got bonus, but you are not entitled to...
Failed on my 1st attempt for BTT.... Sianz.... Have to wait for the 2nd attempt in August...
20 more days to the end of my singlehood and moving on to the new chapter of life... Actually it seems there is not much difference bah.... Life will still be the same...
Bored at home........ Gotta find something to entertain myself.... And to look for a job soon.... Wont it be great to go for a short holiday trip during this time? haha........
Tuesday, July 01, 200811:25 AM
