Naughty Darius...;
Its the end of Feb le.... ANother month had passed.... Damn fast lor... 2 more wks, Darius will be 4 mths old already... And he will be going for his 2nd vaccination.... Just last wk, when I bought him for his 5-in-1 vaccination at our family doctor, my mother and I had a great laugh. Is not that we are so bad and like to see him in pain hor... What happened was that we thought he will cry very loud and scream his lung out, just like what happened when he was at KK last month, having to go through so many needle pain. But, when the doctor inject the needle in, he just cry for a few seconds, after which, he was "scolding" the doctor for more than a min with his baby talk. Even the doctor cant help but laugh.... Damn naughty lor... So young already know how to scold peple lor....
The doctor is the 1st to get scolded by him. And I'm the 2nd person to get scolded by him lor. Just 3 days ago, after bringing him home, feed him and change him to his pyjamas, my mother and I went out to have our dinner at 8pm. Leaving Darius to play with his grandfather. ANd we only came back home after 9pm cuz we need to go do some shopping for our home neccessities. When we came home, he was agitated. Reason? Cuz he shit on his pampers and there is no one to clean him up for half an hr or so. He wanted to slp but feel uncomfortable with his dirty pampers. So when my mother cleaned him up and carry him on a sitting position facing me, he started scolding me. And his expression is so damn fierce lor. He only stopped scolding me when I apologised to him so many times den he happy. @#$%# 3 month old baby is scolding his own mother... What the.... See, dun say kids lah, babies nowadays are also so naughty and hot tempered. BTH...
It is a joy to see him growing up and becoming more and more playful and talkative everyday now. He can even smile at people on the bus or in the lift with him, though he never met those people before.
Although this is not the path that I initially wanted to take, I have come to accept it. Seeing him everyday after work is something that I look forward to. But there are some things that I missed greatly. Freedom and the money to pamper myself. With him around now, I cant go out shopping or meet friends as and when I like. And money is mostly spent on him. Just have to endure 1 or 2 years, and when he know how to walk, can bring him go out with me le. Wont have to always stay home so sianz... :)
Random Pics of Darius:
His look change again
Holding his own milk bottle
Playing...
Getting facinated over a mini fan.
Saturday, February 28, 20093:08 PM
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY;
Its 14th Feb.... V Day!! But, do couples only show their love for each other only today?? I had never celebrated V Day with him before, even now when we are married. Reason being, his work doesnt allow us to. Anyway, why spend a bomb going for a romantic dinner and getting each other pressie juz only today? Isnt being together everyday can be a valentine's day as well??
But now married with a child, even spending time together alone seems hard. Its been so long since we went out enjoying ourselves with movies, dinner, or shopping.... Shopping now is only awhile going to suppermarket to get necessities such as pampers and we have to go home straight.
Many people thought that being together is actually involve juz you and him. But actually is not. Being together and married involved so many people. your own family and his'. There will always be disagreements over things that we dun like or on ways we want it to be, especially with a baby now. Each of us have our own thinking, and we might not like each other way of doing things. I think we just have to give and take. He always give in to me and I do my part by keeping some of the things to myself and not tell him to avoid another arguement. I have a bad temper, as what he said. And I agreed with him. I always want things to be done my way. Thats juz me!!
But it is fate that brought us together, and we gotta spend the rest of our lives together. No matter how bad thing is, we are a married couple and with a child. We cannot lose our cool and think of going seperate ways.
It is fate that brought every man and women together to become a couple. Out of million of people in the world, cupid choose both of you to be a couple. ANd it is up to the couple to maintain the relationship. Breakups and divorce should always be at the back of your mind, only at the last resort, and not at the tip of your tongue. TREASURE. Thats the word for relationhip!!
I treasure my relationship and am learning how to give and take now.... But sometimes..... I still want things my way... Haha.... I have a lot of things I want and hope for..... Can I??
I want...
My driving licence.. Come this 19th March and I am going to take my Final theory. Hopfully I can make it for the test and pass. The timing seems a bit tight.... Gotta rush from work to fetch Darius and back home then to the driving centre by 6.45pm..... Sigh..
My wedding photo this anniversary.... With me wearing my wedding gown... Isnt it every woman's dream to wear a wedding gown??
A car... After getiing my licence, I hope to own a car... haha...
My home... Just the 3 of us under 1 roof...
Am I being too greedy????? I'm not earning a lot every month......... Sigh...
Anyway....
Saturday, February 14, 20095:34 PM
