HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY;
Its 14th Feb.... V Day!! But, do couples only show their love for each other only today?? I had never celebrated V Day with him before, even now when we are married. Reason being, his work doesnt allow us to. Anyway, why spend a bomb going for a romantic dinner and getting each other pressie juz only today? Isnt being together everyday can be a valentine's day as well??
But now married with a child, even spending time together alone seems hard. Its been so long since we went out enjoying ourselves with movies, dinner, or shopping.... Shopping now is only awhile going to suppermarket to get necessities such as pampers and we have to go home straight.
Many people thought that being together is actually involve juz you and him. But actually is not. Being together and married involved so many people. your own family and his'. There will always be disagreements over things that we dun like or on ways we want it to be, especially with a baby now. Each of us have our own thinking, and we might not like each other way of doing things. I think we just have to give and take. He always give in to me and I do my part by keeping some of the things to myself and not tell him to avoid another arguement. I have a bad temper, as what he said. And I agreed with him. I always want things to be done my way. Thats juz me!!
But it is fate that brought us together, and we gotta spend the rest of our lives together. No matter how bad thing is, we are a married couple and with a child. We cannot lose our cool and think of going seperate ways.
It is fate that brought every man and women together to become a couple. Out of million of people in the world, cupid choose both of you to be a couple. ANd it is up to the couple to maintain the relationship. Breakups and divorce should always be at the back of your mind, only at the last resort, and not at the tip of your tongue. TREASURE. Thats the word for relationhip!!
I treasure my relationship and am learning how to give and take now.... But sometimes..... I still want things my way... Haha.... I have a lot of things I want and hope for..... Can I??
I want...
My driving licence.. Come this 19th March and I am going to take my Final theory. Hopfully I can make it for the test and pass. The timing seems a bit tight.... Gotta rush from work to fetch Darius and back home then to the driving centre by 6.45pm..... Sigh..
My wedding photo this anniversary.... With me wearing my wedding gown... Isnt it every woman's dream to wear a wedding gown??
A car... After getiing my licence, I hope to own a car... haha...
My home... Just the 3 of us under 1 roof...
Am I being too greedy????? I'm not earning a lot every month......... Sigh...
Anyway....
Saturday, February 14, 20095:34 PM
